This weeks post is a nine minute audio interview with Bill Thrall on the difference between beliefs and convictions and between potential and destiny. Bill Thrall is an author, teacher and international consultant. His books include TrueFaced, The Ascent of a Leader, Bo’s Cafe, The Cure, and just recently released, The Cure for Parents. He is also a very good friend and my favorite mentor.

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It seems inevitable that every time I teach the good news of the gospel of grace to a gathering of religious, dedicated, Christians there will be a few that are furiously mad at me. They make a point to correct me not only privately but publicly. Actually they are not mad at me, they are upset by the message of grace. The message of grace is always disruptive to all of us before it becomes good news. Here are four reasons grace is so unsettling:

• It eliminates our ego. It eradicates our ability to boast and take credit. (“Then what becomes of our boasting? It is gone.” Romans 3:27). We like to take credit for our relationship with God. But the reality is the more responsibility we take the more we will resist grace. We want to contribute something to the deal. There is a sense we should earn what we get. And so grace is an upsetting invitation to surrender.
• Grace seems unreasonable and scandalous. We have never experienced a similar one-sided and one-way relationship before and so we believe one cannot exist. Paul calls the idea of such a relationship “a stumbling block” (I Cor 1:23). Our English word “scandal” is the transliteration of the Greek word for “stumbling block”  (skandalon). And so we don’t give God permission to do something that is outside our comprehension.
• When we know we are guilty, the gift of God’s grace does not feel like it costs us enough. We feel as though we should pay for what has already been purchased for us. If we pay for something it is no longer a gift (“…for by grace you have been saved…it is the gift of God” Ephesians 2:8,9).
• We are in a spiritual battle. Oh it is disguised in a lot of subtle ways, but the essence is always the same – to get us to substitute our performance for the work of Christ on the cross. Darrel Bock writes this, “Any presentation of the gospel that adds human works to grace is not the gospel…”

Scotty Smith in his notes on John 15 says “The gospel sabotages all forms of self-salvation.” That is really good news.

 

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“If we don’t know the satisfaction of solitude, we will only know the panic of loneliness.”*

I am an introvert. There are times I need to be alone, and there are times I know I need solitude.  The difference is life altering. Sometimes I need both. Jesus needed both. There were times he was simply alone, and then there were intentional times he was by himself, but not alone. He was with the Father…listening, praying.

My wife Sue is an off the scale extrovert. Extroverts need the satisfaction of solitude just as much. Everyone does. Those who don’t practice and experience the soul filling satisfaction of solitude live with an unsatisfied emptiness. The bad news is they have lived with it so long they think it is normal…and therefor what it means to be whole and healthy.

A WARNING: Don’t get confused between solitude and physical rest, recreation, or just plain alone time. We need rest, recreation and aloneness, but they are unfulfilling substitutes for solitude. Our soul tank stays empty. The Lord speaks through Jeremiah saying, “…for my people have committed two evils: they have forsaken me, the fountain of living waters, and hewed out cisterns for themselves, broken cisterns that can hold no water. (Jer 2:13). They confused the recreation of ESPN for solitude – for extended time in the presence of God. There is nothing evil about ESPN, the evil was the people believed it could do for them what their soul was thirsting for, what only God could do for them.

MY CHALLENGE: Being well rested, having fun, and having appropriate personal time is important. Because they are important, we set aside time for them in our schedules. We build them into our routine. How about solitude? Have you built that into your routine? Some extended time in the Scriptures, listening, pondering, journaling, praying, etc? How might you insert it into your routine? When? Where? How often? How long? Decide right now! Plan it now. Protect that time at all cost…or it will cost you dearly.

*  quote by Sherry Turkle